In 1932, Aldous Huxley wrote “Brave New World,” a gross portrayal of what the future might become. We are halfway there. Among his observations: “Facts do not cease to exist because they are ignored.” Some make an art form of ignoring.
The other day, encountering an old friend who has become oddly, ideologically unrecognizable, I was first happy, then mildly confused, then shocked, then sad.
This old friend, somewhat my senior, was at first glad to see me, then suddenly angry that I did not see the world her way, would not vilify President Trump. I asked her why she felt the way she did. I wanted to know, sincerely.
That, of course, was the beginning of the end. She said he was an “autocrat,” a word that I was impressed to hear from her. Her mentor, turns out, was the media.
When I asked what she meant by “autocrat,” she was somehow unable to expound, so I offered help, genuinely hoping to find some common ground.
Thinking about how the left bludgeons malleable people with their Huxley-like or George Orwell-like definitions, I offered: “Do you mean he is a ruler with absolute power, and that he wishes to concentrate power?”
“Well, yes, exactly!” she responded. I asked what powers he had concentrated. She was at a loss. I helped again, recalling the left’s talkers. I asked: “Do you think his DOGE effort, downsizing by cutting waste across the federal government, is an effort to concentrate power?” “Yes, Bobby, that is part of it, yes!”
I paused and noted that the federal government employs three million people, that Trump laid off 300,000 for not complying with laws, pursuing political agendas, not coming to work, or being wasteful. She got upset. “No, no, no, that is not so, I am sorry, he is an autocrat.”
I parried with something simple. I noted autocrats increase federal power, concentrate it; they do not cut jobs, give power or money back to states or people. I asked how he had increased federal spending when he was cutting it.
This was a difficult one. I felt bad, so I pivoted. “Can you tell me a policy you do not like?” She stammered, gathered herself, and said, “The way he used laws, broke laws.” I asked which laws he had broken. This produced more silence.
Again, I tried to help. Was she talking about…deporting illegals who committed felonies, using the military to stop terror groups trafficking drugs, deployment of the National Guard? “Yes, that’s it, that’s part of it, Bobby!” She felt relieved.
I slowed the conversation down, unpacked each item for her, noting that even if she did not like him, he had broken no laws in helping to stabilize and protect the country. His deportations, while challenged, are lawful, the Supreme Court affirmed.
I noted the presidency of Bill Clinton used two aggressive techniques against the then-Colombian and Peruvian drug traffickers, affiliated with terror groups FARC, ELN, and Shining Path – shooting down drug planes and shooting drug boats from gun-slung U.S. Coast Guard helicopters. This seemed mystifying to her.
I then inadvertently tanked the conversation entirely by reciting the ten times presidents since Franklin Delano Roosevelt had deployed the National Guard under Title 10 to stabilize cities, including under Lyndon Johnson and Bill Clinton.
When I started to explain the exact laws, groups supported, dates, and reasons for deployments, she cut me off, grabbed my arm, put her hands to her ears, and said: “Bobby, Bobby, Bobby, stop, stop, stop, no, no, no…I always liked you, but no, no, you are wrong, wrong, wrong…and I have to go, so sorry, okay, goodbye.”
And with that, she was gone. I was surprised, and not surprised, aware of the symptoms, the “cannot bear to hear truth” syndrome, the “exasperated by everything” epidemic, and I was honestly sad. I expected more from an old friend.
What I did not get to tell her, but do now in case she dares read what I write, is that she is missing the forest for the trees, so filled with the leftists’ Kool-Aid she has lost herself – lost the ability to discern how things are, not how others say they are.
Then, I would have recited Martin Luther King: “Nothing in the world is more dangerous than sincere ignorance and conscientious stupidity.” In truth, the “Brave New World” is hers, created by the left. The truth lies elsewhere. It hurts when people get reminded of that. Such is the grip of voluntary ignorance.
Robert Charles is a former Assistant Secretary of State under Colin Powell, former Reagan and Bush 41 White House staffer, Maine attorney, ten-year naval intelligence officer (USNR), and 25-year businessman. He wrote “Narcotics and Terrorism” (2003), “Eagles and Evergreens” (North Country Press, 2018), and “Cherish America: Stories of Courage, Character, and Kindness” (Tower Publishing, 2024). He is the National Spokesman for AMAC. Today, he is running to be Maine’s next Governor (please visit BobbyforMaine.com to learn more)!

Edmund Burke 1729 – 1797 ,born in Dublin, Ireland ,died in Beaconsfield,England said ” Whenever a separation is made between Liberty and Justice,neither in my opinion, is safe. The people never give up their liberties but under some delusion .” So,the media are big time suppliers of delusion And that gives us Conservatives , lovers of Liberty and Justice , a sense of being resolute in our beliefs and being watchful for the ways delusion can influence those people who are uncertain about the importance of political beliefs and truth Let us strive to defend what is right in an honorable way.
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RBC, definitely a sad story that is obviously the same in many places in our nation and the world. I have 2 daughters who side with antics and misdirection of the Left despite the truth that is presented, they choose to ignore it. My wife and I can only pray that they will wake up to reality before it’s too late.
HAPPY THANKSGIVING to you and your family.
Sad but true. I’ve lost a half dozen friends over the past decade who have cut off all contact either because I support the original intent of the Constitution [esp. I, II, and X Amendments], or because I think that Donald Trump was definitely the least bad alternative in 2016, 2020, and 2024. Not to mention being “cancelled” by nearly all of my cousins. Thank God I have my wife and son, and my church family.
Voluntary ignorance is exactly equivalent to stupidity. Ignorance is curable through learning, stupidity is incurable.
That is the only way the Democrats can get new members. Cuz we all know that the ultimate oxymoron is using the word Democrat and intelligence in the same sentence. To join the Democrat party you must be either a victim, a loser or both
Low-info voters and Dumba$$ocrat$ are running RAMPANT through our communities. Folks such as this are the type where you can’t tell them anything. You can ASK them something, and they have the answer, ’cause they heard it on CNN, PMSNOW, ABC/NBC/CBS. Or, if they are GEN Z, on their-ever present phones.
AND THEY VOTE!
Thank You! Very well written.
I’m originally from Maine and go back to visit friends once a year. Unfortunately, I have found that attitudes like that of your friend are far too common. And are the primary reason that I will never move back.
I have a family member who only watches ABC, CBS, NBC or CNN for national news. When I am at her house, I only watch Fox News on my Kindle because she has a cow if I turn it on, She has voted Democrat forever because that is what my parents did. They have been dead since 2013 and I know they stopped voting several years before they died. My mom did not like O’Bama because he was a Muslim. I never heard my mom say a bad word about anyone before he came along. When I even mention politics in the most polite way simply to understand why she is so set on voting for them, she stomps off in a huff. We only see each other once or twice a year because we are on opposite sides of the USA so it is not a big problem. I just know that the regular people (not politicians) have no idea how truly terrible the radical liberals have become and they do not want to know. I think that is stupid. But, hey that is just me.
The ONLY reason these money losing MSM outlets exist is to propagandize for the far left and NWO advocates.
I made a new friend this past summer, helping her solve a tech problem she was having. We hit it off and liked each other before we figured out that we were on opposite sides of the political divide. We went out to eat and talked about various topics of the day: deportations, vaccines, Ukraine. And realized that the facts she was reading and hearing were completely different from the facts that I was reading and hearing.
Me not being very political, I certainly couldn’t correct her facts, nor could she correct mine. She admitted she despises Trump, I said I thought he seemed necessary to get the country back to common sense but I really don’t enjoy listening to him speak–if only he could stop before he got to the superlative phrases: “like nobody’s ever seen before,” the best, the greatest, the biggest, fantastic, incredible.
When we compared our personal views we found that we weren’t all that far apart but need to find a source of information that we can agree to trust before any persuasion can occur.
Dims duh?????
I have such a friend who seems newly surprised each time he realizes that I don’t agree with his views on anything (he doesn’t even acknowledge Evil is a real thing). He didn’t used to be like this but now he gets worse every time I see him. Why he hasn’t “unfriended” me yet is a mystery to me. At this point I am thinking it will come as a relief!
Consider those who call themselves conservative, while attacking Israel or calling fascism and Nazism “right-wing”. These are not real conservatives, nor are they acting Christ-like–rather the very opposite.
So very, very true.
PROOF the WOKE MIND VIRUS is REAL and Trump DERANGEMENT Syndrome is a PANDEMIC.
I recall Hillary Clinton, when she was running for President against Trump, saying in one interview that we had to get used to losing our rights. My response to my family was, ” Oh hell, no. Too many people bled and died to give us our rights, and it is our duty to uphold, and keep them. Vote anyone but Hillary and fight for your rights.” I wasn’t that familiar with D.J.Trump. and was pleased to find that he expected to do the things he promised us before the election.
My oldest sister is a democrat who watches all the fake news, and believes them. The rest of us have made a rule that when we get together with her we don’t talk politics. One time, when I was alone with her, she went on and on about how awful she thinks President Trump is. When she stopped, I simply asked how come she felt that so strongly about Trump. She said that she thought he broke tradition by not waiting for his wife, or offering her his hand when they exited the limo arriving at the White House before his first Swearing In, and it was so rude. So I turned it into a conversation about some traditions being out of date, and how Melania was more a independent woman than past First Ladies. She calmed down for a long while after that. As we want to keep our sister relationships going, our middle sister will firmly change the subject when our oldest sister starts to get political. We want to keep doors open, not alienate her.
Trump, an autocrat? No way.
Murderer, yes especially boaters and Palestinian civilians mostly women and children. Heck, perhaps a pedophile and if not which pedophiles was he protecting when trying to kill his promised release of the files?
i don’t think that with his other crimes, Donny has the time to be an autocrat.