The Senate is debasing itself. Standards still matter, especially among those elected to serve. Senate leadership seems to have forgotten that, now accommodating the half-unclad, shorts-wearing, objectively “not-all-there” Senator Fetterman (D-PA).
We all enjoy hanging out at a BBQ in blue jeans, shorts, and tee at the beach, but respect for others – never mind for yourself – matters. Context matters in all things at all times. Understanding context – an understanding you subtly communicate in how you dress – speaks to self-awareness, a sense of place, and nascent good judgment – or lack of it. That is especially true in the US Senate.
A simple sense of self-respect, respect for others, and respect for institutions bigger than ourselves, for places, positions, vested responsibility, and what you are doing – or have been entrusted to do – is reflected in what you wear.
Most of us would not disrespect others by assuming our appearance in their presence does not matter. We would not walk down a local street naked. Nor would we try to kick a football, ski, skate, or fly fish in slippers.
Beyond discomfort, purpose and place affect what we wear, as well as when, how, with what attitude, and why.
We may love flannel pajamas mid-winter or that old sweatshirt at home; we may don a robe or towel out of the shower – but we would not dress that way for a formal dinner, funeral or wedding, probably not even community supper or meeting, let alone to meet a Supreme Court Justice, a foreign head of state, or someone we respect or should respect – for any reason.
Why is that? Lots of reasons, one chiefly, respect for yourself and others and situational awareness that helps guide us. Bluntly, good judgment includes knowing when shorts, tank tops, bikinis, tuxedos, Bean boots, wingtips, and Halloween masks are appropriate – and not.
Good judgment involves balancing a certain freewheeling, “devil may care” independence or happy non-conformity – even occasional cussedness – with other considerations, like humility and what positions of trust and responsibility entail, whether high or low, temporary or permanent, personal or professional.
Pilots, ship captains, military and police officers, doctors, nurses, lawyers, firefighters, EMS personnel, priests, ministers, rabbis, imams, even security guards, innovative chefs, Indian chiefs, plumbers, carpenters, caregivers, housekeepers, lay leaders, stewards, and students – wear uniforms of a sort.
They have a sense of who they are, possess situational awareness, and try to abide trust vested in them. They know respect is earned, not given, have pride in their jobs, skills, and workmanship. Senators should, too.
Most Americans live by a kind of self-set code, which includes a grasp on appropriateness. They know where they are and whether some aspect of what they are doing fits with how they present themselves.
That is part of what they call emotional intelligence, being perceptive, practical, part of society, at once respectful of the individual and self-fenced – respecting.
So, what does Senator Fetterman’s (D-PA) bizarre, indifferent attitude toward the US Senate – to which he somehow got elected while mentally impaired – tell us? What does it mean that he blithely shows up half naked in the chamber, presumes embarrassingly to meet foreign leaders in hairy legs and malodorous sweatshirt, and pretends to represent America to the world this way? He has troubles, simply put.
But what does it mean that Senate Democrats go along? Adding insult to injury, indignity to indifference, they have lowered the dress standards of the US Senate for this disrespectful member.
They not only fail to counsel a misguided, belligerent, often absent, and profane colleague; they decide that 200-year-old Senate traditions, respect for the constitutional chamber, and established history must be kicked aside.
Like many other ways in which modern political leaders disrespect our nation’s hard-won history, Senate Democrats now embrace the disgrace, disrespect our nation’s history for the party, and normalize another abnormal behavior.
Instead of taking their colleague aside, reminding him that our nation is bigger than he, and that they expect something of him – they act cowardly and cave. They punt and move on, removing another piece of what has been kept constant and respectful by the US Senate.
They shrug and destroy another tradition, practice, and moderating influence, one that reflects the mutual respect, good judgment, humility, and trust vested in them.
More and more, these modern leaders have no understanding of where they are – physically and on the arc of history, what the past expects of them. They trade honor, history, and decency for another downshift, less self-discipline, like runaway spending. In this, they dishonor the average American who, yes, wears jeans at a BBQ and shorts at the beach to happy effect but expects better of those they elect.
Standards matter. They have, they do, and they will. Senate leaders have lowered them for themselves, accommodating mediocrity, laziness, and slovenly practices – just as they push lower standards in the military, but these things matter. They do.
Robert Charles is a former Assistant Secretary of State under Colin Powell, former Reagan and Bush 41 White House staffer, attorney, and naval intelligence officer (USNR). He wrote “Narcotics and Terrorism” (2003), “Eagles and Evergreens” (2018), and is National Spokesman for AMAC.
Welcome to WalMart, where you can come in your underwear or pajamas. What a sad example Mr. Fetterman sets for us. One man gets his way, and changes the rules so he doesn’t have to meet the dress code. It is shameful that the Senate went along with this.
As my mother long ago taught me: “If you dress to play, then you think you can play!” Senator Fetterman is just a low class idiot!
RBC,
The degradation of the United States on the world stage can take many forms. The lowering of the standard of acceptable dress code for very visible and important position like United States Senator is simply one such form. The Democrats are nothing, if not consistent, in their focused strategy to undermine the United States at every opportunity they can leverage. I can hardly wait to see how foreign dignitaries and heads of state view being greeted by a delegation of U.S. Democrat Senators next summer in shorts, tee shirts and tennis shoes.
I’m NOT surprised by Fetterman. His father has purchased every political office he has ever run for and and held, as well as financed his lifestyle all his life when not in public office. He’s the poster child for the privileged, spoiled rich kid who grows up to be a slovenly slob who thinks none of the rules in life apply to him. Which seems to be the case with this latest stunt. My guess is Schumer agreed to this lowering of standards after Fetterman’s daddy made a substantial “contribution” to the DNC or Schumer’s own re-election fund. Everything with Schumer is a transaction.
Fetterman is a disgrace to Pennsylvanians. He looked like an escaped criminal when he was running his election campaign. With Fetterman what you see is what you get, and believe me it isn’t much.
Pandering to the lowest common denominator
Who are we kidding? Democrats have no code, just chaos.
We now see a reflection of the “participation trophy” mentality reflected in the U.S. Senate. Unfortunately to the detriment of the institution.
By lowering the dress code standard for one slovenly individual, the US senate is simply pandering to the lowest common denominator.
Who will be the first dissenter to show up in a clown suit just to show how ridicules this is or how about all the females show up in halter tops and short-shorts. You are ladies and gentlemen if can’t act like it at least dress like it.
RBC, you hit the mail right on the head, as you usually do. Fetterman is a disgrace to the Senate, to the American people, and to the state of Pennsylvania. The people of PA, who voted for this addlepated excuse for a man, should be ashamed to have someone such as this representing their state. I feel that his wife should share some of the blame for this boondoggle, in that she should have urged him to drop out of the race after he suffered the stroke.
Just like the school systems, dumb it down to lowest person !!
Fetterman needs to get it together or step down!! He looks and acts like a “homeless” person!! Very not cool for our country. It’s sad folks keep voting him in.
Yeah making $200000 a year is just not enough to dress up for!
Democrats suck.
There is a difference between a boy and a man
Why, when the weather is hot and Biden turns off the air conditioning can’t they all come in bikinis and other swim wear. It would be SO GOOD for our environment. (sarcastic). Schumer is out of his mind not only Fetterman!
The fact is.. Americans don’t care apparently. Sadly, most Americans are too obsessed with everyday living to look up out of their “Tunnel vision” and peek at what is happening in the Capitol! Allowing ANY individual to reduce the revered assembly of persons that are elected to serve in our Country’s Capitol is loathesome, disrepectful and lowers the United States respectability on the world stage!
When the average American writes, calls or contacts their district’s representative to make a complaint about the happenings at the Capitol, changes can be made when they are overwhelmingly inundated with complaints of behavior, lack of action or anything concerning future laws. So call… repeatedly.. complain, get others to complain and keep complaining!
They are cowardly. They can’t even enforce a dress code let alone set laws that help the people in this country. The only thing this congress seems to be able to do is vote themselves raises.
Yes attire matters. Winning a majority matters. Senate leadership is up for another decision in 2024. America is always worth it.
I feel that the Dems no longer care for our Country,or for themselves.
Just by wanting to change the Senate Chamber dress code for one Senator. Unbelievable.
I feel if that is the dress code they want,it should be even more relaxed for them(Dems).They should only be allowed hoodies and (Depends).
That way they will be comfortable and their outfits will contain their intellect.
Just posting for a friend.
The democrats started lowering standards 60 years ago with affirmative action, then it bled over to our education system. Now they change a dress code to please one moron. In the long run lowering standards helps no one and harms everyone.
Initially I felt somewhat sorry for Fetterman as he dealt with medical and mental health issues. That has quickly faded as the man has proven to be nothing more than a clown ….
Fetterman is a symptom. The cretins who voted for him are the problem.
It is utterly embarrassing how Congress is allowed to dress and behave. Such dress and behavior are not allowed in my job as a college professor, for good reason. It is demeaning to all American citizens to have those who are supposed to be representing US dressing like they have no respect for US.
These new rules, demonstrate that you don’t need a brain to be in the senate..
What’s next? Speedos, Bikinis, T-shirts, and thongs.
If you say the elections aren’t fixed I have a bridge in New York for sale ! May God show mercy on the U.S.A. ????????
I couldn’t agree more, standards matter. But to play devils advocate for a moment, how is it in the grand scheme of things does a dress code in the US Senate compare to the tearing down of statues, or members of Congress encouraging rioters to burn down buildings or blatant lying under oath while giving testimony before Congress about a former President. How about a buffoon stealing an election and getting away with it, or selling access to the Oval Office. How about jailing citizens legitimately protesting, or allowing an invasion of foreigners along the southern boarder. Here’s one of my favorites, how about allowing a spy balloon to traverse the entire country and absolutely nothing done about it until it’s too late…then telling us nothing was transmitted.
I’m sorry, but we’ve allowed all these things to happen without so much as a whimper… yet we’re suppose to get bent out of shape with another dimwit Dem wanting to do as he pleases. Indeed standards matter, but when we can’t enforce a dress code anymore or distinguish between right and wrong, male or female, then maybe it’s time to call it quits. Remember Forrest mother would say…Stupid is as stupid does, and we’re pretty damn stupid.
God help us all.
They obviously feel that their status isn’t worth dressing appropriately. So why should we pay them appropriately. Cut the salary in half.
Fetterman is a rectal orifice. He needs to move to a job like trash collector that will match his skills.
The Fascist liberals do everything they can to not only DESTROY the United States but also show what SLOBS they are in the Senate.
They are supposed to be representing not only the Senate but the United States.
Just shows how disdain they are and how disrespectful they are.
It is okay to counteract the crazy downvoters on here condemning legitimate comments. Just push the plus sign. It is okay unless you agree.
…and I couldn’t wear a tank top off the Proteus or Frank Cable in Guam?! Someone tell Festerman the 90s called and want their grunge look back.
Now congress is going to dress the way they feel about their job, extremely casual with no incentive to get down to business to run the best country in the world. The sloppier they dress the less work they will perform. No professionalism today, just can’t wait to leave the workday. So sad! Somebody else can do the work.
THE ENEMY IS WAITING!
Let me explain dress code
* *When you go to church you put on church clothes
* When you play golf you put on golf clothes
* When you play a ball game you put on the appropriate game clothes
* When in business put on business clothes.
It’s all about mine set. If did dong choses to accomplish legislative decisions put on decision making attire
meh just more running down the country. Nothing different.
Slovenly attire like Fetterman further denigrates the seriousness and authority that the Senate has, He is an example of some of the elected people the USA has now. I am sure that any person, especially any military person, that comes before any congressional meeting or hearing that dressed in a disgraceful manner like this would be escorted from the premises and probably be severely reprimanded.
“The Senate is debasing itself. Standards still matter, especially among those elected to serve. Senate leadership seems to have forgotten that, now accommodating the half-unclad, shorts-wearing, objectively “not-all-there” Senator Fetterman (D-PA).” says it all.
Please raise your hand if you are holding this thing up as an example to your sons on how they need to grow up, because you need to be put out of your misery.
They certainly do. Every citizen should take time to imagine what setting aside any sort of dress code can lead to. Picture the world if Nazi’s had succeeded. Who do you think would wind up in uniforms as slaves held by those who rise to power simply by the fact of setting up a system which is run by elite power brokers who consider truth as a commodity that can be bought at any cost.
Have Dress Code or Have None
A FETTERMAN that can’t button a shirt, button his pants and pull up a zipper does not belong in any Government position! Heck he probably can’t tie his shoes!
And he makes policy and laws for you and I?
You awake yet America or do U believe that APATHY will get us through this.
If Democrats had brains they’d be Republicans!
This is an example of what happens when Trump backs another person like Doctor Oz. Trump needs to look at what is best for America & not just his agenda.
Just another strong indication of the dem’s total disregard for the honor and respect due the Offices they hold. They are thumbing their noses at the long standing traditions of this Nation every chance they get, and Chucky is leading the way. I was hoping & praying that with control of the House we might see some serious changes. however, there’s a childish faction within the Republican house that’s still sucking their thumbs & whining because they didn’t get their way. Don’t they realize how weak this makes them look, plus how it does weaken the Republican Party? Get your stuff together and accomplish SOMETHING before this year ends! Stop playing childish, petty games with this Nation. You were elected to LEAD, now do so!
Actually they need to all be in orange jump suites.
They are what they are.
He can’t button a shirt and attach a clip-on tie but he can legislate.
Unbelievable.
Another example of what you get when MORONS are running this country. SAD!
What was the last democratic president that did anything good in office?
A) Biden
B) Obama
C) Clinton
D) Carter
E) Before that (none of the 4 above did a single thing good during their entire terms)
In my past,my occupations required the wearing of uniforms My pants had creases that were sharp as razors .An example to my subordinates and my own self awareness and pride.I learned that from the smartest man I ever knew,my father.I passed that standard onto my own son who became a decorated combat marine and now a member of a SWAT team in Washington State.Have pride in your appearance and you will always earn respect.