Putting yourself out there…
Dating is a great way for single people to stay socially active, make new friends, and potentially discover love. It’s kind of scary to put oneself out there… but for those seeking companionship, it’s a must.
Lighthearted vs. serious commitments
Dating is a lighthearted experience for those simply seeking the pleasant company of another person. For most people over 50, dating is a serious step. This is especially true for widows or widowers and post-divorce individuals. Regardless of one’s situation, here are some questions people commonly ask about dating over 50.
- How old is too old to date? Here’s the answer:One isnever too old to date. Dating over 50 provides opportunities to embrace new beginnings with the wisdom and confidence that comes from a life well-lived. One is never too old for companionship and making deeper connections. However, in today’s world, it is important to stay guarded not only to protect one’s finances, but also to protect one’s heart. Click here to visit our sister article entitled Beware of Romance scams. (Internal link needed)
- What’s the best way to meet someone new? Online dating has revolutionized the way people meet, interact, and find like-minded people. OurTime and SilverSingles are examples of popular dating apps in 2025 that provide different experiences for seniors. However, before jumping in, it’s important to be practical and understand the risks of online dating. It’s also important to understand the matchmaking experiences offered on dating sites and associated costs. If you’re not into meeting online, and that’s okay, go the old-fashioned route instead, perhaps meeting someone through a mutual friend, a club, work, or a religious group as examples.
- Is casual dating acceptable? For clarity, this means dating for fun without the express purpose of entering an exclusive or serious relationship. There are many adults over 50 who are happy with their lives and want to date for fun – but aren’t looking for a serious commitment. This is fine, however, it’s best to be clear upfront to avoid misunderstandings.
- Following a divorce or becoming widowed, when is the right time to date? There is no single one-size-fits-all answer to this question. Individuals over 50 have generally already experienced significant life events that shape perspectives on dating and relationships. This may influence their readiness to date. It’s important to approach new relationships with an open heart and mind, having learned from past experiences. Go with the gut. The timing is right when a person feels it’s right.
- Is it okay to date a friend? Many people who form romantic relationships start out as friends who are single. So, yes, it’s generally okay as long as both parties express mutual respect, set realistic expectations, and are willing to give a go at it. For many, it can be comforting to connect with a friend who has navigated similar paths and/or enjoys some of the same activities that brought them together in the first place.
- Who pays? The financial aspect is a rather sensitive one. Does one person pay? Do each pay separately? This typically boils down to circumstance and tradition. If person number one asks person number two out on a date, the consensus is that person number one pays. Mutual dates are kind of a gray area. Some women believe that the man should pay no matter the circumstance. However, courting has changed over the years. With more women in the workforce, that is subject to change. The advice is to not expect the other person to pay but be prepared to pay your fair share – or pay for the date if you are the inviter.
It’s an adventure!
Dating over 50 is an exciting way to meet new friends and to find a potential companion if so inclined. Adults can enjoy spending time with special people sharing common interests. As folks navigate dating over 50, it can be scary. Nevertheless, bear in mind that every stage of life invites new experiences and adventures to make for a wonderful journey.