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Memorial Day: Take the Time to Honor Our Fallen Heroes and Heroines; Take More Time to Teach Our Kids and Grandkids What the Day Means

Memorial Day

WASHINGTON, DC, May 27 – Memorial Day is of great importance for those of us who lost friends and family members in armed conflicts. But it should also encompass the ranks of those who have even a milligram of remembrance of old friends and relatives who made the ultimate sacrifice in the defense of our country and our way of life. It defines us as loyal citizens of America who love the land of the free and the brave.

Oh, yes, it is the unofficial beginning of summer and that’s okay. Remembrance is not just about mourning. It’s also a way to relive the good carefree times we had as we grew older thanks to the soldiers, sailors and air men and women who traded their lives for that very purpose. Nothing wrong with that as long as we don’t diminish the sacrifices they made for us.

It was on May 30, 1868 that the first day of nationally observed remembrance in honor of those who lost their lives in battle took place in Arlington National Ceremony. It was called Decoration Day back then. 

However, by the beginning of the 21st century we came pretty close to forgetting that Memorial Day is just that, a memorial honoring America’s fallen heroes and heroines. In a 2019 Opinion article by West Point graduate Meaghan Mobbs she wrote that people have a tendency to forget the purpose of Memorial Day, pointing to a 2001 Gallup Poll that found that only 28 percent of Americans knew the actual meaning and purpose of Memorial Day.

Mobbs reminded us that Congress declared a National Moment of Remembrance to remind forgetful citizens what the day is all about. It called for “the people of the United States, in a symbolic act of unity, to observe a National Moment of Remembrance to honor the men and women of the United States who died in the pursuit of freedom and peace.” It was to take place every Memorial Day at 3:00 PM local time.  Its purpose: “to remember and renew the legacy of Memorial Day with greater strides made to demonstrate appreciation of those loyal people of the United States whose values, represented by their sacrifices, are critical to the future of the United States.”

A lot of good that did. Most of America’s younger citizens still don’t know what Memorial Day means.  As Mobbs put it in her article, “We need fewer moments of silence and more moments of talking about service and sacrifice to our younger generations. It is not in the multitude of silence that change occurs, it is in moments when thousands of men and women who’ve ‘borne the battle’ raise their voices in memory of those who have gone before…If we are to truly honor those who gave their last full measure of devotion, we must be active, not passive, in our strides to impress those values upon the broad public.”

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Rich C
3 months ago

Don’t let the lives and memories of all those throughout American history and those who fought from the greatest generation become lost in “wokeness”. Our fighting men and women fought through history, and still fight, for freedom. There is just nothing else worth fighting for.

3 months ago

All I can say is that everyone in this country, kids and adults, should go to Arlington Cemetery at least once in their life. The sacrifices these people made for this country and its people will just humble you. My brother was a Navy Pilot and is buried at Arlington. I know he was a true patriot and I also know he’s in great company. Thank you for trying to make this country and the world better for all of us.

3 months ago
Reply to  MJB

Outstanding comment!

3 months ago

When someone wishes me a “happy memorial day” or happy holiday”, I always instruct them of the true meaning of Memorial day.
-Son of a WWII veteran.

3 months ago

What is happening Am putting flags not question marks

3 months ago
Reply to  Weary

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3 months ago

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3 months ago

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Lawrence Greenberg
3 months ago

I have to wonder just how many of those who died defending and protecting this nation would take back their sacrifice if they could have seen what was to become of the nation for which they died. One look at our present condition and leadership would surely make them at least hesitate…

3 months ago

No, I disagree. What is happening to our nation now is because we and our forefathers have elected un-Godly men who have appointed un-Godly judges.

3 months ago
Reply to  EAA

I am so tired of this rationale.

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